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	<title>Comments on: Do real names build community</title>
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		<title>By: Tacobake</title>
		<link>http://www.tabletopgamingnews.com/2008/03/18/13171/comment-page-2#comment-27817</link>
		<dc:creator>Tacobake</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Sep 2008 08:09:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>If we are talking about this, I personally like differentiating between gaming boards and professional boards.  Goofy name and all the jokes for the gaming boards, the professional boards I use my professional name and make ... the same jokes.  :).

That is the opposite, I would say.  This is assuming the Internet is an extension of one's resume.

But a colleague should understand anything under the call sign counts under, "noone cares what you do on the weekend".</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If we are talking about this, I personally like differentiating between gaming boards and professional boards.  Goofy name and all the jokes for the gaming boards, the professional boards I use my professional name and make &#8230; the same jokes.  :).</p>
<p>That is the opposite, I would say.  This is assuming the Internet is an extension of one&#8217;s resume.</p>
<p>But a colleague should understand anything under the call sign counts under, &#8220;noone cares what you do on the weekend&#8221;.</p>
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		<title>By: RogueM</title>
		<link>http://www.tabletopgamingnews.com/2008/03/18/13171/comment-page-2#comment-19659</link>
		<dc:creator>RogueM</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 30 Mar 2008 12:18:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nick (redstripe), I'm going to take the bait on this one but first as it is my first post let me introduce myself... my name is Rogue Maréchal (if the surname makes anyone more the wiser). And no Rogue is not my first name :-)


Dissociative Identity I'm sure is a disorder for those whose profession it is to diagnose, those who get paid for 'solving' people's life by putting a label on some condition that may be there for a reason (positive effects), and those who sell above mentioned drugs.


To those who choose to 'suffer' from it, except extreme cases, it is not only harmless but beneficial to their well being.


I realize you were teasing but I wanted to make the serious point that we all have different patterns of behaviour. A basic example is that we can get asked the same favour from 2 different people and for one the answer will be 'yes' and for the other the answer will be 'no'.


That's completely essential to protect yourself against opportunists and parasites (the latter being purposely offensive and a form of opportunism harming the recipient) and is of course why DID is controversial.


I personally assert the 'condition' as I have suffered, medically speaking, from rejecting it and from so called 'professional' attempts to repair what I describe as an asymmetric response that I was unable to 'socially conceal' (this is sometimes referred to as hypocrisy).


Anyway just chiming in to say that apart from my mother, girlfriend and employer (in other words those taking care of my well being in a significant manner) it is 'Rogue' so that's obviously going to be 'Rogue' for everyone I will unlikely ever meet in person ;-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nick (redstripe), I&#8217;m going to take the bait on this one but first as it is my first post let me introduce myself&#8230; my name is Rogue Maréchal (if the surname makes anyone more the wiser). And no Rogue is not my first name :-)</p>
<p>Dissociative Identity I&#8217;m sure is a disorder for those whose profession it is to diagnose, those who get paid for &#8217;solving&#8217; people&#8217;s life by putting a label on some condition that may be there for a reason (positive effects), and those who sell above mentioned drugs.</p>
<p>To those who choose to &#8217;suffer&#8217; from it, except extreme cases, it is not only harmless but beneficial to their well being.</p>
<p>I realize you were teasing but I wanted to make the serious point that we all have different patterns of behaviour. A basic example is that we can get asked the same favour from 2 different people and for one the answer will be &#8216;yes&#8217; and for the other the answer will be &#8216;no&#8217;.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s completely essential to protect yourself against opportunists and parasites (the latter being purposely offensive and a form of opportunism harming the recipient) and is of course why DID is controversial.</p>
<p>I personally assert the &#8216;condition&#8217; as I have suffered, medically speaking, from rejecting it and from so called &#8216;professional&#8217; attempts to repair what I describe as an asymmetric response that I was unable to &#8217;socially conceal&#8217; (this is sometimes referred to as hypocrisy).</p>
<p>Anyway just chiming in to say that apart from my mother, girlfriend and employer (in other words those taking care of my well being in a significant manner) it is &#8216;Rogue&#8217; so that&#8217;s obviously going to be &#8216;Rogue&#8217; for everyone I will unlikely ever meet in person ;-)</p>
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		<title>By: Bungle</title>
		<link>http://www.tabletopgamingnews.com/2008/03/18/13171/comment-page-1#comment-19074</link>
		<dc:creator>Bungle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Mar 2008 19:30:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am known as Bungle by my friends both online and in real life. It took my wife 6 weeks to find out my real name when we first met.

It separates work and official stuff from friends.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am known as Bungle by my friends both online and in real life. It took my wife 6 weeks to find out my real name when we first met.</p>
<p>It separates work and official stuff from friends.</p>
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		<title>By: redstripe (Nick)</title>
		<link>http://www.tabletopgamingnews.com/2008/03/18/13171/comment-page-1#comment-19055</link>
		<dc:creator>redstripe (Nick)</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Mar 2008 14:24:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote cite=""&gt;He is different to who I am in real life.&lt;/blockquote cite=""&gt;

Dissociative Identity Disorder is a treatable condition and there are several very effective medications on the market.

I don't know, Zac, I'm not sure this is making me less abbraisive.

I kid, I kid.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote cite=""><p>He is different to who I am in real life.</p></blockquote>
<p>Dissociative Identity Disorder is a treatable condition and there are several very effective medications on the market.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t know, Zac, I&#8217;m not sure this is making me less abbraisive.</p>
<p>I kid, I kid.</p>
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		<title>By: Thom</title>
		<link>http://www.tabletopgamingnews.com/2008/03/18/13171/comment-page-1#comment-19052</link>
		<dc:creator>Thom</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Mar 2008 12:16:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have always used at least part of my real name in any screen name I have used. It's easier for me to remember and easier for everyone else. 

However more than once I have walked over to a crowd of gamers and gotten your that Thom? It was rather amusing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have always used at least part of my real name in any screen name I have used. It&#8217;s easier for me to remember and easier for everyone else. </p>
<p>However more than once I have walked over to a crowd of gamers and gotten your that Thom? It was rather amusing.</p>
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		<title>By: Audrey</title>
		<link>http://www.tabletopgamingnews.com/2008/03/18/13171/comment-page-1#comment-18977</link>
		<dc:creator>Audrey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Mar 2008 03:33:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I bit late of seeing this. But interesting topic as about 2 years or so ago I have mainly dropped using wraeththu and just use my first name Audrey. I certainly feel it is more personable to use a real name. But I guess people that want you to know their name will tell it to you. I know some gaming forums were most tend to post their name in their threads and it is a rather friendly place. But anyhow, to each their own I guess.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I bit late of seeing this. But interesting topic as about 2 years or so ago I have mainly dropped using wraeththu and just use my first name Audrey. I certainly feel it is more personable to use a real name. But I guess people that want you to know their name will tell it to you. I know some gaming forums were most tend to post their name in their threads and it is a rather friendly place. But anyhow, to each their own I guess.</p>
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		<title>By: Gitteau</title>
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		<dc:creator>Gitteau</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Mar 2008 16:43:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I'm a closeted gamer, so I can't imagine using my full name on any gaming site. My real name is public on  a number of non-gaming sites, and I don't think it affects my demeanor or posting style in any way.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m a closeted gamer, so I can&#8217;t imagine using my full name on any gaming site. My real name is public on  a number of non-gaming sites, and I don&#8217;t think it affects my demeanor or posting style in any way.</p>
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		<title>By: jedijon</title>
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		<dc:creator>jedijon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Mar 2008 15:05:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Gah--names are dumb.

I don't "HIDE" behind any anonymity, and I'm not the kind of guy who will meet you or be interested in being met at a convention.  I'm all for the option to be there, part of my name's ALREADY in my handle, you won't gain anything by knowing my last name--and you won't "know me" by putting my name to my face so to speak.

The real issue as I see it would be the amount of persona that people seem to invest in these online thingees (or their "fandom" in general anyway).  That seems to be what's driving the anger, betrayal, etc.  Look no farther than the fans of confrontation for examples.  While I have been--and will be in the future--guilty of this as well, I'm cognizant of what unhealthy involvement is.  And, I would think that in a very small way, adding your "real name" would make the experience more "real", and cause an infinitesimally greater amount of investiture as the community consensus becomes that these little posts we make are less of a "side-light", and more of our "real-life".  Cuz folks, if you're not chatting with people you'll ever play a game with--it's not real life at all.  How's that for an ironic thing to say in this context?  (i.e. none of you know me)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Gah&#8211;names are dumb.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t &#8220;HIDE&#8221; behind any anonymity, and I&#8217;m not the kind of guy who will meet you or be interested in being met at a convention.  I&#8217;m all for the option to be there, part of my name&#8217;s ALREADY in my handle, you won&#8217;t gain anything by knowing my last name&#8211;and you won&#8217;t &#8220;know me&#8221; by putting my name to my face so to speak.</p>
<p>The real issue as I see it would be the amount of persona that people seem to invest in these online thingees (or their &#8220;fandom&#8221; in general anyway).  That seems to be what&#8217;s driving the anger, betrayal, etc.  Look no farther than the fans of confrontation for examples.  While I have been&#8211;and will be in the future&#8211;guilty of this as well, I&#8217;m cognizant of what unhealthy involvement is.  And, I would think that in a very small way, adding your &#8220;real name&#8221; would make the experience more &#8220;real&#8221;, and cause an infinitesimally greater amount of investiture as the community consensus becomes that these little posts we make are less of a &#8220;side-light&#8221;, and more of our &#8220;real-life&#8221;.  Cuz folks, if you&#8217;re not chatting with people you&#8217;ll ever play a game with&#8211;it&#8217;s not real life at all.  How&#8217;s that for an ironic thing to say in this context?  (i.e. none of you know me)</p>
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		<title>By: Osbad</title>
		<link>http://www.tabletopgamingnews.com/2008/03/18/13171/comment-page-1#comment-18925</link>
		<dc:creator>Osbad</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Mar 2008 12:17:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I've used "Osbad" on pretty much every gaming forum I have ever got involved with.  So it is probably the case that more gamers know me by my nickname, rather than my real name "Paul Mullis".

For this reason alone, I will stick with my nickname here and elsewhere.  However if I had my time over I'd have probably used my full name from the start, as I am a lot less paranoid about identity theft than I was all those years ago.

There are certainly many people within various wargaming companies who know who the real Osbad is, and will (and have) hold me to account for anything controversial I may say.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve used &#8220;Osbad&#8221; on pretty much every gaming forum I have ever got involved with.  So it is probably the case that more gamers know me by my nickname, rather than my real name &#8220;Paul Mullis&#8221;.</p>
<p>For this reason alone, I will stick with my nickname here and elsewhere.  However if I had my time over I&#8217;d have probably used my full name from the start, as I am a lot less paranoid about identity theft than I was all those years ago.</p>
<p>There are certainly many people within various wargaming companies who know who the real Osbad is, and will (and have) hold me to account for anything controversial I may say.</p>
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		<title>By: LarkinVain</title>
		<link>http://www.tabletopgamingnews.com/2008/03/18/13171/comment-page-1#comment-18917</link>
		<dc:creator>LarkinVain</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Mar 2008 07:34:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>We do searches on myspace, google, etc. on new potential employees all the time. This is specially important when the employee is working with children. Not because of paranoia or being big brother but because we've been screwed over in the past because an potential candidate puts up a front in the interview and end up to be a bad employee. We end up wasting time on money. Of course all potential employees know that we may or may not do (depending on the position) a background check on them and this includes searching myspace, google, etc. The extra time invested in searching more about an employee on what is publicly available could save a lot of time and money and even the professional relationship between co-worders. (I've seen bad apples come in an practically destroy interpersonal relationship among co-workers)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We do searches on myspace, google, etc. on new potential employees all the time. This is specially important when the employee is working with children. Not because of paranoia or being big brother but because we&#8217;ve been screwed over in the past because an potential candidate puts up a front in the interview and end up to be a bad employee. We end up wasting time on money. Of course all potential employees know that we may or may not do (depending on the position) a background check on them and this includes searching myspace, google, etc. The extra time invested in searching more about an employee on what is publicly available could save a lot of time and money and even the professional relationship between co-worders. (I&#8217;ve seen bad apples come in an practically destroy interpersonal relationship among co-workers)</p>
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		<title>By: briguy</title>
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		<dc:creator>briguy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Mar 2008 05:44:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Zac: I'm thinking more of things I may have said on other sites where I use the same username (*cough* Frothers *cough*) I think I've watched my mouth, but you never know.

My girlfriend attended a seminar with some experts who said this kind of thing is very, very common research for employers in her field of work (education) and seeing as I want to get into something like that, I want to be very careful.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Zac: I&#8217;m thinking more of things I may have said on other sites where I use the same username (*cough* Frothers *cough*) I think I&#8217;ve watched my mouth, but you never know.</p>
<p>My girlfriend attended a seminar with some experts who said this kind of thing is very, very common research for employers in her field of work (education) and seeing as I want to get into something like that, I want to be very careful.</p>
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		<title>By: mathieu</title>
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		<dc:creator>mathieu</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Mar 2008 05:42:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My thought exactly. Getting to work for a Big Brother look alike doesn't sound that appealing to me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My thought exactly. Getting to work for a Big Brother look alike doesn&#8217;t sound that appealing to me.</p>
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		<title>By: Zac</title>
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		<dc:creator>Zac</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Mar 2008 05:01:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Do you actually think that you might not get a job because of postings you make here?

Would you want to work at any place that wouldn't hire you because if it?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Do you actually think that you might not get a job because of postings you make here?</p>
<p>Would you want to work at any place that wouldn&#8217;t hire you because if it?</p>
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		<title>By: briguy</title>
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		<dc:creator>briguy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Mar 2008 02:40:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Trent:

Very good points. Until I *have* a regular employer where they may understand any eccentricities I may have (ahem) then I think I'd like to avoid any potential "Google mishaps". :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Trent:</p>
<p>Very good points. Until I *have* a regular employer where they may understand any eccentricities I may have (ahem) then I think I&#8217;d like to avoid any potential &#8220;Google mishaps&#8221;. :-)</p>
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		<title>By: Trent McCaffrey</title>
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		<dc:creator>Trent McCaffrey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Mar 2008 01:36:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This whole concept can be put in a different perspective.  Imagine trying to live in the real world without giving your real name.  Imagine you go to an interview and tell a prospective employer, "I'll give you my nickname, but I want to protect my personal information to prevent fraud."  Or you go to get a bank account and tell the bank, "You can't have my real name, because you might leak my information by accident."  In both cases they would think you're crazy.

The reason that our modern societies work so well is because they're built on accountability and trust surrounding identity.  It's not easy to change your name on a whim, as it is on the internet.  People can be trusted because they'll be identified and held accountable by the rules (the laws) of society.

We &lt;i&gt;could&lt;/i&gt; try to live out our lives strictly under nicknames, but it would be damn hard to live without a bank account and to receive income in cash only.

Unfortunately, because much of the early internet culture was developed by hackers (where fear of prosecution was very real), the pseudonym convention stuck.

Certainly there are merits to concealing one's real identity from prospective employers and fraudsters.  I think the former is largely a non-issue as most employers will be simply bored by looking at employee's hobbies.  And the latter concern is overblown.  Identity theft happens primarily through good old-fashioned mail fraud.  I know, I work in banking.  Besides, the massive community benefits gained by using real names outweigh the minuscule additional fraud risk.  Go back to the previous example....you could eliminate the risk of fraud be &lt;i&gt;never&lt;/i&gt; giving your name, but would you want to life that way?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This whole concept can be put in a different perspective.  Imagine trying to live in the real world without giving your real name.  Imagine you go to an interview and tell a prospective employer, &#8220;I&#8217;ll give you my nickname, but I want to protect my personal information to prevent fraud.&#8221;  Or you go to get a bank account and tell the bank, &#8220;You can&#8217;t have my real name, because you might leak my information by accident.&#8221;  In both cases they would think you&#8217;re crazy.</p>
<p>The reason that our modern societies work so well is because they&#8217;re built on accountability and trust surrounding identity.  It&#8217;s not easy to change your name on a whim, as it is on the internet.  People can be trusted because they&#8217;ll be identified and held accountable by the rules (the laws) of society.</p>
<p>We <i>could</i> try to live out our lives strictly under nicknames, but it would be damn hard to live without a bank account and to receive income in cash only.</p>
<p>Unfortunately, because much of the early internet culture was developed by hackers (where fear of prosecution was very real), the pseudonym convention stuck.</p>
<p>Certainly there are merits to concealing one&#8217;s real identity from prospective employers and fraudsters.  I think the former is largely a non-issue as most employers will be simply bored by looking at employee&#8217;s hobbies.  And the latter concern is overblown.  Identity theft happens primarily through good old-fashioned mail fraud.  I know, I work in banking.  Besides, the massive community benefits gained by using real names outweigh the minuscule additional fraud risk.  Go back to the previous example&#8230;.you could eliminate the risk of fraud be <i>never</i> giving your name, but would you want to life that way?</p>
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